| Most single guys are interested in how to talk to | | | | those shallow guys. |
| women in a more fun and seductive way. It really isn't | | | | Okay, so that's what you shouldn't do. Here is what |
| that challenging once you stop doing all the | | | | you should do when you talk to girls: |
| conventional stuff most guys do that just plain doesn't | | | | Come up to her like you would anyone else and just |
| work. | | | | make sure you have a good time. See the woman as |
| This is how most men should be talking to women: | | | | someone equal to you. A few "dating gurus" will tell |
| Don't use pick up lines. These are just plain terrible. | | | | you to treat her like you're superior to her. That's not |
| Most guys use pick up lines as a crutch when they're | | | | my taste. It is easy to overdo it and look like a total |
| too lazy to actually pay attention to the woman or her | | | | jerk. This personally isn't for me, but I will say that doing |
| situation. It makes you look about as charming as a | | | | this will put you slightly ahead of all the men that make |
| panhandler begging for spare change. "Give me | | | | the mistakes I mentioned above. |
| money!" Does this friendly greeting make you feel like | | | | When you approach a woman as your equal, you |
| making a new friend? I thought not. That's exactly how | | | | don't feel like you need to prove anything to her. You |
| she feels when you tell her that her legs must be tired | | | | just have a normal conversation. Yes, there's a good |
| from running through your head all day. | | | | chance that she's really hot, but that's no reason to |
| Don't use your lawyer or doctor job, your sports car, | | | | treat her differently. |
| or any other dumb toys to try and impress her. You're | | | | Don't forget that she is like any other person and has |
| starting everything off by treating her as someone you | | | | aspirations and faults. Someone who cries and laughs. |
| need to impress, which isn't going to get you very far | | | | When you really begin to understand this you don't |
| at all. You are approaching her with the mindset that | | | | have to worry about being a creep or being slimy. Plus, |
| you are somehow worth less than her. If you grew up | | | | you have a much better chance of connecting with |
| with a little brother or sister, you know how it can be | | | | the girl and building a feeling of attraction. |
| when they try to hang out with you and your friends | | | | The core of the message here is to not treat her like |
| and impress you. Not anything you want to be. | | | | someone better than you. As long as you approach |
| For the same reason, don't make a huge deal about | | | | the girl as someone you need to impress, you'll be |
| how "beautiful" or "hot" the girl is. She likely hears it | | | | blown out before you even say a word. Talking to |
| frequently. But then, I don't need to tell you about | | | | women isn't hard. Just remember that both of you are |
| judging books by their covers, do I? You're not one of | | | | equals and want to have fun. |