Should I Borrow Against My House to Pay the Nursing Home?

It is not too unusual for a child to try to cover the costmuch lower than the "private pay rate." So every
of a parent's nursing home stay by taking out a homemonth Mom's care is paid for by Medicaid, her family is
equity loan against the parent's house. Wise move orsaving money.
not?It rarely makes sense to borrow against the house to
Let's assume Daughter took out a home equity loan topay for the nursing home. One situation where you
pay for Mom's long-term care. Unfortunately, whatmight have to do that is when the nursing home you
Daughter did not realize is that she is paying more thanwant to use simply does not accept Medicaid (most
she needed to, often thousands of dollars more. Whydo, though). In that case, you really have no choice. But
is that?for the vast majority of people, they are better off
First of all, assuming the only asset Mom has is theapplying for Medicaid and not paying privately, eating
house, she should be able immediately to qualify forup the home equity value.
Medicaid, because the house is an exempt asset andIs there no other alternative than simply waiting till Mom
not counted for Medicaid eligibility purposes. So thatdies and then repaying the full amount to Medicaid?
means that Daughter could have applied on Mom'sIndeed there are other possibilities that can save the
behalf and not had to pay a dime out of Mom's pocketfamily even more money. Some of these ideas are
(i.e., via the home equity loan) for her nursing homediscussed in my other articles.
care.NOTE: During the Medicaid applicant/recipient's lifetime,
Second, even if nothing is done with the house and it isthe house will be exempt so long as the equity is no
sold on Mom's death to repay the state for everymore than $500,000. If a spouse is living in the house,
penny of Medicaid benefits paid to Mom during herthen there is no limit on value. After the Medicaid
nursing home stay (this is required under the "estaterecipient is in the nursing home for some time, some
recovery" rules), she'd still be way ahead. That'sstates may place a lien on the house to make sure
because the state gets a much better deal on nursingthe house will be available to repay Medicaid down the
home rates than we private citizens do. The so-calledroad, but in no case will the house have to be sold until
"state reimbursement rate" to the nursing home will beafter the death of the Medicaid patient.